You ARE enough! by Dulcie Bercaw

Naturally curly hair that doesn't cooperate? Anyone else? Lol.

Good morning my beautiful people. How are you on this majestic Saturday?

I choose to look at everyday as a possibility to overcome the things that weigh me down and to enjoy the things that make me want to live.

As many on this site or any other site don't think that I don't have self doubt just like everyone else does. I go through the "I am too ugly for anyone to find me attractive". "I haven't lost enough weight". "I am not that out going". I pick myself apart on all the reasons why I will never find someone.

Then I look in the mirror and realize I am just as beautiful as anyone else. That beauty isn't just what is in that mirror. It is who we are and how we act. I look at myself and tell myself that I am good enough. That I don't need someone to make me complete. That I am strong and am able to take care of anything life throws my way. I don't need anyone to do it for me.

What I realized is I want someone to walk beside me. I want someone to talk to and listen to. I want someone to go out with or stay home and cuddle and watch a movie. Do I need it? No. I want it.

Therefore I will not give up. I will not put myself down. I will keep pushing forward and trying and putting myself out there. I will not accept defeat.

I will overcome this as I have everything else in my life. I hope you join me in lifting yourself up instead of putting yourself down. Let's see those smiles. I want to see you brag about yourself. If anyone would like to know anything about me just ask away.