Life With No Limits by Dulcie Bercaw

Good afternoon. I have been pondering many things lately.

Grief is something that hits us like a ton of bricks in the beginning. As time moves on so do we. We change and adapt to our new life. To the new us.

We grow in these changes looking for what will make us whole again. In the beginning everything seems hopeless. It seems as if we are alone and the darkness consumes us. The question is how long do we want to live in that darkness? How long do we want to suffer in sadness?

It is okay to have times of sadness and grief! Just don't live there forever. Pick yourself up and find your meaning again. Find your "happy" again. Another person isn't going to make you happy, they aren't going to make you feel whole only you can do that.

Once you have found happiness again you will be surprised at the possibilities of life. You will be surprised at how much living you can and will do! Once you learn to be happy again...

For those wanting to find another partner they will find you. Don't get discouraged. Don't give up hope. Get out there and live life with no limits. Get up, get dressed and go on an adventure. Find what makes you, you. For years we lived as an “us” and now we have to learn how to live as a “me”.

When looking for your special someone look outside your "perfect" person. Don't limit yourself to age, height, weight or any stereotypes in your head. Once you open up your mind and heart to all possibilities the possibilities will be endless. For those trying to date here remember to post often. Post about you and what you are looking for. Comment on others posts. Respond to people who comment on yours. The world is waiting. Have a blessed evening

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