You aren't "moving on"—you are moving forward. Moving forward doesn't mean forgetting; it means carrying your love for your late spouse in one hand and the possibility of new joy in the other. Trust your own heart over the expectations of friends or family.
When you do feel ready to explore the possibility of a new relationship, it's normal to encounter a whirlwind of emotions. You might find joy in new connections, but also moments of sadness or even guilt about moving forward. Be patient and compassionate with yourself. These feelings are valid and a natural part of the process.
Losing a spouse is a seismic event that reshapes every corner of your life. When, and if, you embark on the journey of dating again, one of the most profound and often delicate areas to navigate is intimacy...